My Story

During the summer of 2017 I began my medical transition. I never hated myself because I was a boy, I just knew I wasn't one. During the same time that I embarked on my gender transition, I was working full time as a coordinator at an organization for LGBTQ elders of color. Transitioning on the job was a radical act of vulnerability that taught me a lot about boundaries, my access needs, and healthier forms of communication. Being surrounded by elders (my chosen family) who "saw" me, stewarded an ancestral connection to the universe and my body that I had been seeking. 

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While working full time, I was also in a  full-time toxic relationship with someone I felt was not committed to understanding my world.  Codependency was clearly the undercurrent of our relationship and the toxicity was neither serving myself or my partner at that time. I still chose not to leave him. Instead, I moved in with him, and only after a month of moving in, we adopted a dog together. 

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It took a whole year of losing friends, disconnecting from my family, falling down financially, and receiving letters from loved ones telling me to leave him, to dive deep into my own discernment. I went to therapy on a weekly basis and sought additional sage advice from a healer/spiritual adviser. 

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As a mixed, able-bodied, queer woman of trans experience, I learned quickly how to define my story for myself before it defined me. I am an empath at heart and an unapologetically ambitious boss babe. I would love to work with you to raise your vibrations, level up, and see yourself in your fullest expression, because you  ABSOLUTELY deserve it all.